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How to Master and Command your Emotions - For Men Only


Men have had it difficulty for centuries, since men are taught to not, show emotions. The old saying, "Big boys don't cry," has left imprints on men's emotions for centuries. This is unfair to men, since men have emotions too, which include feelings and heart. It makes me sad that people misunderstand men in many instances, since men have feelings just like anyone else. I am a woman speaking as I write, however my findings and learning in life has taught me that men are people too. I've had many experiences in life and many hurts. Many of those hurts came from a few men, yet women have hurt me too. I am not talking on a sexual level; I am talking on a human level, which is to point, out that all of us are inclined to hurt others. There is no acceptance of the rules, yet the rules often blame men for not showing their emotions.

Men have proven leaders from years behind us. Men build houses, buildings, roads, planes, cars, and the like. While women have shown their true leadership and achieving traits, men from old times has accomplished many things in life. The men are our leaders and it is up to them to provide to others, bringing forth good results. The bad deal is many times the efforts men put forth has lead to failure. This has placed a high-impact on men emotions. For instance, men have built cars for years, which are proven to deliver toxics to our system. It is causing damage to the environment. Men have a big weight of responsibility on their shoulders, thus master and commanding the emotions is a big chore, since men are taught not to show emotions in the first place.

So hey guys, how do you master and command emotions that never display self in the first place in most instances. Did you know that crying is a relief? Crying can help you disable negative emotions, which could put you in command. There is nothing wrong with a good cry now and then, regardless of the control freaks that tell you otherwise. Therefore, if you are feeling over weighted, let go. Sometimes you have to let go of your emotions to find relief. Relief brings you to command and mastership of your own mind.

Relief releases anxiety, tension and expresses feelings of release. It is a feeling of lightness, cheerfulness, and a factor that disengages anxiety. Crying releases pain caused from stress, which includes eliminating a hunger, boredom and the like. This takes the weight off, since it helps you to see the longer road in your pathway of blurriness as you start to release. Crying is an expression of the emotions and heart. Crying proves you are human.

The saying "Big boys don't cry" is a dehumanizing belief stressed to another person. To dehumanize a person means to make the person less than human. This is the process of taking one's individuality. It takes away the person's interesting and creative aspects of the personality, while demolishing compassions, and sensitivities toward self and others.

The belief is a quality remover that minimizes desires and needs. It dulls the senses, thus making the person mechanical. Men are not machines they are people too. It is wrong to tell a man that he cannot express his emotions appropriately without infringing on the rights of others. It is wrong for people to criticize a man for properly showing his emotions in public while commanding and mastering his emotions. Therefore, the dehumanizing souls that have put you in this state of mind must ultimately be removed. Thus re-conform you mind to grow into mastering and commanding your own emotions. Much love to you gentlemen!

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